• Men rarely think about writing us sweet little love notes or sending us flowers. So, the next time your man gets to your nerves with his lack of romanticism, remember that men don't always think like this. What do they think about? They may wonder why their sex lives are not too hot. You see, they don't care about the small stuff, including reminding you with cute little gestures how much they love you. Usually their idea of "romantic" is often different than ours. The next time you start to share with your guy that you would love him to bring you flowers once in a while, don't get frustrated it if he doesn't respond to you immediately. He probably has other things on his mind, so give him some time to figure out if he understands what you really want.
• Does your man seem unconcerned when you want to talk to him about something important to you? Do you feel that there is a problem here you wish to talk about and he seems nothing but interested? Men prefer to keep their problems to themselves and think about them for a while. It doesn't mean your man does not want to communicate with you. It just means that he would rather think about the situation twice before expressing himself. In general, a man will want to come up with something concrete to say or a solution to a problem, rather than just discussing over and over with you. Even if we women think about our problems out loud and need to discuss every little aspect of an issue, men simply do not have to do the same. When it comes down to communicating, give your man some space. When he is ready for a discussion, allow him to take the initiative. Remind yourself that you are two different people, with a completely different way of approaching and expressing yourselves.
•Don't be offended when you don't get exactly the response you would expect or desire.
Your man may not immediately notice your new haircut. Remind yourself that haircuts aren't that important to him. Don't let it get to you and don't take it personally! Just remember that men don't always think about things like we do; sometimes what they see as trivial is often more important to us. It doesn't mean that your guy doesn't pay attention to you or that he thinks you look horrible with this new haircut. Give him some time and he will surely notice the brilliant change on you!
•Let's talk sex! Okay, I know this is a sensitive subject. Women are sure that men think about sex every seconds of a day. Well, it is just a rumor. According to the Kinsey Institute, 54% of men think about sex once or several times a day, 43% think about it several times a month or at least once a week, and 4% think about it only once a month. The next time you complain that your man only has one thing on his mind, you may want to think twice about that. Most likely it isn't true. Even if he just can't keep his hands off you, this is his way of expressing his love for you.
How men think, isn't easy to figure out. The next time you are upset with your guy, try putting yourself in his shoes – well, his mind! Understanding men is s huge step towards a great and balanced relationship. And there is not a woman in this world who wouldn’t go for it!
